You are going to prison. Your wife has promised to hold the family together, but you are worried that she might forget you while you are serving your time. Your love for your wife is solid, but if you want to do your part in keeping the marriage strong, try some of these ideas: Keep romance alive by phone and mail. The guards might read the letters but that shouldn’t stop you from pouring out your feelings to her on the phone and when you write. States that allow conjugal visits Make up some love poetry, recite it to her on the phone and send copies in your letters. Dedicate love songs for her to listen to. Better yet, write some corny love songs, just for her. Planning for the future keeps her spirits up. It is easy to sink into depression in prison, but it is important to help her stay positive while you are gone. Talk about the future. Make plans for when you get out. Encourage her to think about things you two will do and tell you all about them. Keep her looking at you by staying in shape. It is easy to gain weight and get out of shape in prison. Make the effort to work out so that you maintain a healthy weight. Kali Muscle: Biceps and Triceps Prison Workout video In between visits, she will have a mental picture of you and it will remind her of who she married. Prison Wives Larry King video Final thoughts: If the two of you have a strong bond when you go in, it will remain strong while you are gone. Making an effort to keep the romance alive can be an adventure. Embrace the idea and see just how creative you can get.